Ummm….I need a judge’s clarification here. I just read an article about a new term for singles. Ghosting… Apparently, it means when you are texting on a dating site, talking on the phone or actually meeting up and one of the parties in question just up and disappears….no note, note nice banging ya, no fuck you. Just Bye Felicia. Dictionary version: “the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication.” Most happen right after a night of mind-numbing, no strings attached sex. Wow. No strings attached. One would think that would be a great set up.
Why disappear when you could have THAT scenario.
Leave it to the millennials to make up a name for this practice. Back in the day it was called just being a fucking dick. Well, it was mostly done by just guys back then because girls…. yes girls get attached very quickly. A real woman comfortable with herself and her sexuality would not give a flying fuck about attachments if that is what she really wanted. You see, I’ve come to learn a few things in my close to 48 years on this earth.
- Never underestimate the power of idiots. As more than I would like to have seen meme’s have said, “They’ll beat you down to their level with experience.”
- Give a person a rope and they wanna be a cowboy….Or they will hang themselves.
- And most recently someone answered a question for me….”Give someone a little, see what they do with it. Most will let you down.”
Wow. Small list, but big in all of the most significant ways. It kind of kin to “Everything I Ever Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten.”
So, why are people doing this shit? It’s men and women and I just do not understand. Let’s break this down for the average person ages 25-55, or so.
You met someone….via dating app, texting, phone calls, Face Time…whatever and you both want the same thing….no serious relationship, no strings attached, just sex. The kind of sex we all saw in 9 1/2 Weeks. Some conversation, racy pictures maybe, even phone sex, but basically just awesome, crazy, can’t keep your hands off each other dirty ass sex….and WTF? Why would anyone not want that?!? Neither person cares much about what else the other is doing on non-hook-up days (or nights). Maybe they talk every couple of days about minor stuff. Maybe they talk everyday and some of it is semi-serious. Not serious enough that anyone would think it was going anywhere but to a fucking bed…or parking lot…or hotel…or park…or beach…Oh wait, I should stop there. I getting some visuals here….
Just be on the same fucking page. Say what you mean, mean what you say. Do not be THAT person. What’s that stupid cliche?…Oh, yes, don’t look a gifted horse in the mouth. Ride that bitch.
Because when you look back at what you had or may have had….it’s to damn late. You gave up something most people would kill for. Dumbass.